一、若爱,请深爱。放弃,请彻底。
Either love wholeheartedly, or make a clean break.

等待,本身就是一个错误……不要轻易放弃本不该放弃的,也不要固执的坚持不该坚持的。
Cherish what you should, but don’t persist in what’s not meant to be.

二、看得开一点,伤害少一点。
Take it easy, and get hurt less.

一个人要是舍得让你伤心,就不值得你为他流泪。所以赶紧收起你那卑微的泪水。洗洗脸、刷刷牙,好好过生活。
If he can bear to break your heart, you can bear to let it go. So get yourself together and live life.

三、有些事,要经历后才会懂得。
Some things in life can only be learnt through experience.

过了,遗憾了,才知道其实人生并不需要这么多无谓的执著,没有什么不能割舍。
It’s only when everything has passed that you realize we cling on unnecessarily to many things in life.
(omg I had a tough time thinking how to translate this one, especially 执著–any better suggestions…?)

四、秋天–残忍的季节,成熟不成熟的都要一同收割。
There will come a time when you have to pack it up and go, whether you’re ready or not. Like how autumn arrives when you’re in the midst of enjoying summer. 

一切都会在秋冬交替的刹那间随风而逝,唯有那一泓鲜亮山溪般的记忆永远在心中哗哗流动。
Everything will change in the split second autumn transcends into winter – except the crystal-clear memories that forever remain in our minds.

五、珍惜身边的幸福,不要等到失去以后才悔不当初。
Cherish the happiness while you still have it, not only after it’s gone.

也许你的一生就只有那么一个人会真正在你身上用心。
Because there may never be another who would so readily devote their heart and soul.

六、人生就像一列车,车上总有形形色色的人穿梭往来。
Life is like a train, and there’s always people getting on and off at each station.

你可能会在车上遇到很多有缘人,但当车停下来的时候,总会有人从这列车上上下下。到你下车的时候,转身离开,唯一记得的住的只有回家的路……
You might meet many people on board, but when the time comes for you to alight, the only thing you’ll remember is the way home.

七、有的人你看了一辈子,却忽视了一辈子。有的人你看了一眼,却影响你的一生。有的人热情的为你而快乐,却被你冷落。有的人让你拥有短暂的开心,却得到你思绪的连锁。有的人一厢情愿了N年,却被你拒绝了N年……
There are those who stay by your side forever, only to be neglected by you the whole time. Then there are those who are gone in a split second but change you for life.  And there are those who live solely for your happiness, only to be given the cold shoulder. There are also those who brought you fleeting moments of joy, but earned your eternal desire. Last but not least, there are those who try for n times and get rejected by you n times…

八、不要欠朋友太多东西,因为你可能永远都没有机会还完。
Don’t owe a friend too much – you never know if you’ll have enough time to repay it all.

欢笑过后
会否一直回首

Spend your time treasuring what you have, not mourning what you don’t.

(Sadly, I didn’t come up with the above. All these chim sayings from here. I did my own translations and edited some of them.)