When one is at his most vulnerable and miserable, he would hope that the people around him can hold back their views for a while, and just listen…maybe provide some reassurance. At times like this, we are not looking for and don’t need someone to tell us what’s “right” and what’s not, because sometimes we do things even when we know it’s deemed wrong by others anyway, and I think it is this that makes us human. At times like this, someone who can suspend judgment, even if just for a few moments, is a godsend.